I am a guy and I was 14/15 hola at the time of this incident. One day I was heading home from school in Nepal yatatat. This was a long time ago. I was seated in a 2-seater on the window side.
Then a man came and sat besides me. He placed his hand on his lap and slow started moving it around (bus was shaking) and put it on my thigh. Then he started pinching my thighs and tried to grab my scotrum. I clenched my legs together and didn’t know what to do. I just clenched it very hard and some people came and stood in front of the seat and he stopped.
I don’t know how many more guys have had this in their teens/late teens. This happens to guys as well – I have not publicly discussed this ever, but I wanted to put it out there so that more boys are aware of this. Sexual abuse against any gender is sexual abuse.
Please be aware.
Edit: I am unsure why this is a joke ? Some of the comments are quite insensitive. I’m just trying to put forth what happened to me as a kid. I am well over 30 now. It’s an entirely different world to me right now – maybe back then it wasn’t.
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I personally have not experienced it but I have had 4-5 of my guy friends share these experience. Its horrible. Mostly happens to young boys or physically not so strong men. These predators think they can do it and get away it. If it happens to you again, punch that mofo hard in the face. Halla gara, gadi rokna lau, beijat nai gardeu tesko. I swear tya ko drive khalasi ni bihan dekhi kaslai ris pokhum bhako hunchha. Uniharu le ni thapchhan.
Had similar experience as a boy. However, the molester was a woman in prolly late thirties. Kaadh ma haat rakhdine and ekdam inappropriately touchy hune. Bad touch ta afai feel hunxa ni.
Thank you for sharing. I hope you have been able to overcome any feelings of guilt or shame which might have come up at the time.
Sorry that happened to you. It shouldn’t happen to anybody but unfortunately that’s not the case. More power to you 💙
I am also a male and I was molested by my cousin when I was sleeping. She is 5 year older than me. Sadly, I couldn’t do anything.
Thank you for sharing. It takes enough courage to share such things. I hope such incidents never take place and even if it does , don’t be scared to stand up for yourself :’)
I wanna put a b00llet through these or such predators.
I also had gone through same experience as a boy .i think i was about 10 or 11 years old at that time. One of my neighbour dai did it. K bhako bhanda i used to go to play games in his home ani one day he flashed his d**k and told me to do this and that.. i was numb at that time since it was so uncalled for and was scared af. After that i never went to his house. I was traumatized fr and the thing is i never told anything to anyone related to that incident.
I had a similar experience when I was about 16/17 . A middle aged guy came and sat beside me and he did the same thing. Later I noticed he was trying to touch the private part of the guy standing beside him too. I was little afraid and I changes the bus right then.
has happened to me twice actually.
I think, after having this conversation with a group of friends, molestation happens too often. In saying that, I’m not trying to say what has happened is not bad, it is. Safety nai chaina. And after talking with my friends, now I know that even males are equally unsafe. The world is a cool place, with some sick minded cruel people that just don’t deserve to exist.
had similar incident, i broke that old guys nose and It was bleeding. No tolerance for SA
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I used to pinch my school friends asses(jokingly)..is that molestation 🤡
Some people laugh it off
Then your not a guy brother, had a similar experience yesterday a tit grabbed my fucking cock on my way to collage did nothing grabbed his fucking neck and poured a bottle full of hot water through his eyes . You should’ve took your chance and attack the person.
I was a big kid so thankfully maybe that protected me 🙁. I was a really dorky innocent kid though. Idk how I would handle that situation.
Sorry to hear that. It’s a bad thing, if anything happens to u like that, u should raise your voice or else that person will do that again to others also.. be safe..
Damn … sexual frustration is so bad 👎. Let the people gain knowledge about sex 😒
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you’re okay 🙁
How long ago was this? A old guy did the same to me on Nepal yatayat the route is same too I bet (it was around 2069/2070 B S)