My partner and I are 4 weeks pregnant and we are not ready to have a baby. We are considering abortion, but we are afraid of it and don’t know much about it. We are wondering where the safest place to get an abortion is in Kathmandu and what the risks and complications are. Any information or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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You will most likely be suggested abortion through pill which can be taken by yourself at home. Don’t delay if you both have made the decision. Your partner’s health will take time to recover so take good care of her, and do make sure to not repeat the pregnancy mistake.
I don’t understand all this “face the consequence of your action” comments. Surely it could’ve been prevented with careful contraceptive choices. But let’s think about the future too. When the baby was unintended there will be lack of emotional attachment, katti psychologically effect garcha, family bond vayena vaney pachi samma trauma huncha. I’m not saying the OPs are gonna be bad parents but we need to look at every possibility. Abortion garnu sano kura haina tara bachha janmaunu pani ta sano kura haina ni ta.
Anyway about the abortion, surgical risky lagcha vaney medical abortion can be performed up to 9 weeks. They’ll give you two lots of medication Mifepristone(RU486) is the first pill you’ll need to take and Misoprostrol is the second.
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Kasto alu jasto response ho yar yo. It’s a fetus not a baby ani k bullshit ho tyo “you’re going to kill a baby” re. Unwanted pregnancy hos ki j hos Tyo conceive garne bau ama can do whatever the fuck they want. Hurkauna parne uniharuley ho… If they dont have a stable financial status ani bharkhar ko manxe ho bhane kina janmauna paryo.. 4 weeks is not that far away…… I don’t know about the hospitals or clinics tara I suggest you do what seem fit instead of yesto “Killing a baby” wala mentality linu bhanda
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4 weeks is not far gone, and you don’t have to go through much. Just few tablets as far as i know. There will be next to no complications but i would suggest you eat iron rich food after the procedure. And also take rest and keep yourself mentally relaxed.
Abortion garna ko lagi yo logo bhako thau ma Janus. 12 weeks samma tapai lai Kasai ko Pani permission chaidaina (legal age ko hununxa bhane). You go, take your partner for comfort. Most probably they’ll give you pills. 2 ota pills hunxan,
1. Mifepristone
2. Misoprostol
They will give you the direction of use, tei anusar le use garnus. Pharmacy haru ma Pani pauxa, Tara yo OTC drug haina (prescription chainxa). Plus it’s safe if you go to a health care institution becaus you know the direction of use, and you know the side effects to anticipate.
Kun hospital Jane? You can come to TUTH. Tya Kati hospital ko side ma yellow block xa, CDPH ko thyakka xeu ma. Tara aru thau Jada Pani hunxa, but make sure you see the logo given below.
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All the best!
How did both of you manage to get pregnant
A quick google search shows that before 9 weeks you can have pill abortion and after nine you have to get in-Clinic abortion. So i think you guys are good. Just visit the clinic recommended in other comments and trust the doctors. Good luck op.
Some real scumbags in the comments. I really hope OP and partner get the advice, support, treatment and aftercare everyone in their situation needs. This really isn’t the place for the pathetic virgin Andrew Tate cuckboys of Kathmandu to vent their non-opinions.
And yes, I echo what other sensible people have said – contact the Marie Stopes organisation for impartial, confidential and professional medical advice, and try to do so quickly. Good luck.
It’s perfectly okay to let go if you’re not ready.
marie stopes nepal. I don’t think there will be any risks and complications.
Doctor here. Don’t buy the “abortion pill” yourself and take it at home. There is a method to take it and not following it correctly may result in failure of drug.
You should visit Marie Stopes. They are the organisation for Family planning and abortion. They give you the same pill but they follow a proper procedure to rule out any complications.
Some rare but very serious cases like ectopic pregnancy cannot be terminated by a pill. It requires surgery. They will do an ultrasound just to confirm everything so it’s much safer.
You should visit them. You can opt for medical abortion till 10 – 12 weeks and surgical abortion after that in certain scenarios.
You are just 4 weeks pregnant, visit doctor and take pills they recommend. There comes a pills to abort fetus up to 12 weeks pregnant. So, don’t take stress and consult doctor as early as possible. After taking pills take care of ur partner.
Marie stopes seems to have a good reputation here. It’s better you look it up and ask around these clinics yourself because the religious dickheads will just waste your time.
Hope all the processes go well!
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Nepal’s shitty sex education is evident from some of these comments. We literally learned in EPH abt how contraceptives do protect unwanted pregnancy but is 98% effective as sometimes mistakes happen, regardless the usage of contraceptives or not. Plus, as long as it’s inside of the uterus, it’s a fetus.
Bro wtf is we are
Are u both pregnant???
Don’t give shit like Priyanka karki
just a thought… for these literate people out here saying abortion of 4 weeks is like killing someone…
guys masturbate everyday… ani throws “what could’ve been there child” out there like nothing.. does that make them a killer too?
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1. Contraception can fail. Didn’t you people study population in school? Book mai thiyo ta common contraceptive devices ra how effective they are. Plus, their side effects.
2. Even if OP and their partner were irresponsible and didn’t use contraception, a child should not be a punishment to the parents. How sick are you people to wish for its existence as a punishment to the parents?
And all that’s without questioning the ethics of denying abortion to those who want or need it (i.e. denying someone their bodily autonomy).
So sad to hear such negative comments in the subreddit. I never thought our society had much of a problem with it, but alas I was so wrong. Also, in such harsh words without a chance for civil discussion.
Was the repulsiveness towards abortion inherent to our society or is it the spillover from western far-right ideology?
Bro won the lottery of the sperm race just to get canceled after 4 weeks. Lmao
There is an abortion clinic in ekantakuna , you can check that out.
is it 4 weeks pregnant or 4 weeks since you had your last period? you could be 8 weeks pregnant. when did you take the hcg test? it could just be a missed or delayed period so take multiple tests to confirm. if you are actually pregnant, go for an ultrasound. if you are just 4 weeks pregnant, the fetus is still in the uterus and can be aborted with pills. you can go to bir hospital. if it has been more than two months i suggest you go to marie stopes in jhamsikhel. they are slightly expensive (it was 7k for surgical abortion and 4k for pills back in 2020, probably more now) but dont risk your health at cheap clinics unless it’s just pills which would be the same everywhere.
Call on 1143 which is a toll free number of Marie Stopes Nepal they’ll work with a guaranteed confidentiality and you’ll get all the answers to your questions from a Doctor.
Go to a legit doctor instead of reddit. Please use contraception in the future.
What are these comments lol
I don’t understand why the fuck you had baby when you’re not ready
But, upon saying that I am also not someone who believes in bullshit that you’re killing a life and blah blah
If you weren’t pregnant then that was way better
but
Now that you think it’s not the best time to bring your child in this world then it’s 100% your choice
I think you would easily find many in ktm
Just make sure to go to the best clinic out there and take good care of mother
both are pregnant?
Bro please the title it implies u and ur partner are both pregnant!
For medical reason we had to do abortion. Later we couldn’t conceive naturally further my wife started having various other medical problems. If you are married couple please think twice. I am saying based on our experience.
Edit: ours was 6 weeks
Bro bachha pau bihe gara mero sathi le ta garyo mast jindagi xora xa maile name rakhdeko ho Ayesha bhanera baccha pau responsibility sikxau .
How did you both get pregnant?
tesailay buda pakha haru lay bhanthay
paiso payay biki nahalnu
josh uthay **** nahalnu
If you guys are married already, think twice before you guys do abortion.
Jati chado janmio teti chado hurkinchan.
If you have parents who can help, much better.
Josh ma aayera abortion garlau.
Paxi pheri bacha pauna dhilo bhayo bhannalau.
The faster you have kids. The faster they grow up. Which will help you in long process.
Good luck with your decision
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Abortion is not a form of contraception. Who are you both to take a life because you couldn’t put a rubber on it? Think about the word ‘potential’, every life has the potential to be anything. You could be aborting the person who brings peace to the world or who ends world hunger, cures cancer, anything is possible.
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smh murdering the future life of your own child. just sickening man