Are we falling for trap ? Why are we romanticizing sadness so much ?

Emotional ups and downs handle garnai na sakne manche haru please seek help from dr , therapist or from anywhere haita .

Afu sano huda , bharkhar bharkhar YouTube, Google charcha ma aaudaitheo ani ma ta hami lai ta sab kuch tha huncha Google bata ,hami ta sab jana khatra hunchum jasto lagtheo tara aha sab lai trap ma fasnu cha ra internet ma ayera hagnu cha .

Ajkal why the fuck is everyone being so selfcentric ,self obsessed ho kya . Eak ta afu ma bhako kami kamjori ( listening, expressing , communicating , working hard etc bala skills haru haita )ma work garnu chaina .Ani you are fucking sad / depressed because people ( AFNO MANCHE JO MATTER GARCHA ) cut you off ? Behora hudaina bhane yes lots of people will cut you off .
Yo ” ma jasto chu thik chu , malai esari nai man paraunu parcha ” bhanne jun mentality cha ni eslai jalai diye huncha . You need people(afno manche ) to survive bujheu ni and for people you need to change, upgrade yourself . Afno worth tha cha bhane take time, heal yourself when people cut you off ,tyo ta uni haru ko loss ho.
Ani yo depression, anxiety sabda ko jun majak banaira chau ni you are going to regret it kunai na kunai din . Jaba timro afno manche lai samasya huda hudai ni usle kehi bolna sakdaina ,help magna sakdina ni kina ki yo mental issues fake garne population dher bhayera , then you will realise timi le jani najani katro thulo galti garya chau.
People are kil**** themselves due to mental issues ani timi hawa mai afu lai mental issues ko gambhir birami ghosit gardiney? Sab ma kehi na kehi mental issues huncha huncha , we need to work on that , work garda garda thakeko chau bhane seek help around you ,afno manche lai garo bhako tha cha bhane take them to hospital or therapist .

Ma afu ni psychiatric ward ma admit hune awastha ma pugeko manche ho, Home treatment ma survive garya manche ho ma . Ma tyatso awastha ma pugney karan bhaneko yo fake garne manche nai ho . Sab jana ” malai ni depression cha anxiety cha ” bhantheyea so I thought I need to deal with it as everyone around me is doing .( mind you : I was teenager, mero esto sansar ka kura bujhne buddhi theyena ) .
Reality ma, mentally issues hune manche haru ko malai eti maya laghca ni. Kasam bhanya people are faking being depressed ho kya . And please if you think you can’t handle yourself, kehi kadam chalera dr, therapist kaha gaideu , plastic manche dher bhaka chan hami maja linu parcha hareak pal ko, kehi na kehi sikne ,paune chau hami le 🙏

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